It is imperative to begin by clearly expressing that there is no judgment on what one’s sexual orientation actually is. The discussion below is not about changing or repairing one sexual orientation to another. We honor, value, and accept all men equally regardless of sexual orientation. This section below is specifically about sexual orientation confusion. It is about feeling trapped or stuck by never feeling comfortable or knowing for sure what one’s sexual orientation is.
Sexual orientation confusion is a deeply common experience for many men but so rarely spoken about. Those three simple words, “Am I Gay?” or “Could I be Gay?” can have a tremendous impact on a man and all the relationships in the man’s life. Sexual orientation confusion is not explicitly about determining what one’s sexual orientation actually is but rather it is more about moving through the feeling of confusion. It is that feeling of not knowing for sure what one’s sexual orientation is that creates much pain in a man’s life.